Spice Up Your Sex Life Tips- Win a “Her Pleasure Kit” #WinWednesday

Sex! One word can cause so many emotions with people. There are those who will immediately be embarrassed and no way no how will they talk about it.  Then there are those who have no problem talking about sex in front of anyone.

Lets talk about facts. If you’re married, we know you’re having sex and if you’re not, well then… you better get to it.

All relationships go through ruts, you’re both extremely busy with the hustle and bustle of life. The kids have you running ragged, the laundry is piled high, you still haven’t balanced the checkbook (do people still do that?), and life’s many other obstacles get in the way of  one on one time with your spouse.

Put life aside and make time for the two of you to get your groove on. Quickies don’t count, it’s like eating a snack bar to hold you over for dinner. We all do it once in a while but if you did that all the time, you would starve.

Boredom. Do you have the same routine? Do you put on lingerie on his birthday and on your anniversary? If you’re among the majority of people who read 50 Shades of Gray, you know there’s many,  ummm….. toys and activities that can be added to your sex life.

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Here’s some tips to try:

1. Lighting – change the lighting. Do you always have the lights off or dimmed. Keep them bright and look at each other.

2. Pretend – Role Play isn’t always straight off the freak board. Meet somewhere but take separate cars and meet for the first time. Woo each other and flirt.

3. Oils and creams – Grab sensual oils and give a massage to your loved one

4. Shopping – Go shop at a sex store, shop together and plan your night.

5. Talk- Talk to each other, and I’m not talking about asking, “How was your day?” Talk dirty or least try.

6. Control – Take control, tell him everything to do step by step.

7. Surprise – Pop in the shower when he’s in there

8. Impulse – Don’t wait until you get into the bedroom to start to have foreplay

9.  Dress – When you put on your lingerie, don’t forget heels

10.  Enter our giveaway and Spice Up Your Sex Life Tips- Win a “Her Pleasure Kit”

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Wait there’s more!  The Sinclair Institute is offering a complimentary webinar series, The Better Sex 6 Step Program to Ignite Your Sex Life. Tonight’s  topic (Wednesday 10/24)- “Sex Talk”—all about communicating with your partner about how you like to be touched and what your desires are.  In tonight’s webinar you get to connect with a certified sex therapist and have your questions answered all FOR FREE!.  “Sex Talk” tips and our giveaway could mean a HOT night is your dream come true.

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  1. make a date if you have to

  2. Laurie Matheny says:

    Variety!!! And never let yourself go (SHAVE!!).

  3. date night! even if it is just making fondue at home and having some wine : )

  4. Brittany B says:

    Turn the TV off and just hang out. The TV is way to distracting. Always need to make time for each other.

  5. Keep things interesting and fun.

  6. Drop the kids off at the grandparents house. You can louder that way. Lol

  7. Suzanne M says:

    Surprise him with something he has been talking about.

  8. Dawn Reid says:

    Surprise him with a Just for him night

  9. Paula Tavernie says:

    Try what he wants!!

  10. Shannon Baas says:

    Send kids to a sitter for the nigt.

  11. Just start making out for no reason at all! Or take a steamy bubble bath together! 😉

  12. Tease and flirt all day as foreplay!

  13. Samantha Meyer says:

    We try to make things interesting by using these weird game cards, they have a different position om each card. If it’s too hard, we pick another.

  14. Variety would be my best tip.

  15. spontaneity.. keep em guessin 😉

  16. variety…change up the positions and places…

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  17. Tara Woods says:

    be willing to try new things

  18. Vikki Billings says:

    Start with a back massage with special massage oils

  19. Miz Vickik says:

    Do thoughtful little things for each other

  20. Leslie L. Stanziani says:

    Try new things.Do not be afraid to experiment.

  21. Trisha McKee says:

    Definitely try new things and yet, don’t do anything that crosses your line.

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