Sex! One word can cause so many emotions with people. There are those who will immediately be embarrassed and no way no how will they talk about it.  Then there are those who have no problem talking about sex in front of anyone.

Lets talk about facts. If you’re married, we know you’re having sex and if you’re not, well then… you better get to it.

All relationships go through ruts, you’re both extremely busy with the hustle and bustle of life. The kids have you running ragged, the laundry is piled high, you still haven’t balanced the checkbook (do people still do that?), and life’s many other obstacles get in the way of  one on one time with your spouse.

Put life aside and make time for the two of you to get your groove on. Quickies don’t count, it’s like eating a snack bar to hold you over for dinner. We all do it once in a while but if you did that all the time, you would starve.

Boredom. Do you have the same routine? Do you put on lingerie on his birthday and on your anniversary? If you’re among the majority of people who read 50 Shades of Gray, you know there’s many,  ummm….. toys and activities that can be added to your sex life.

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Here’s some tips to try:

1. Lighting – change the lighting. Do you always have the lights off or dimmed. Keep them bright and look at each other.

2. Pretend – Role Play isn’t always straight off the freak board. Meet somewhere but take separate cars and meet for the first time. Woo each other and flirt.

3. Oils and creams – Grab sensual oils and give a massage to your loved one

4. Shopping – Go shop at a sex store, shop together and plan your night.

5. Talk- Talk to each other, and I’m not talking about asking, “How was your day?” Talk dirty or least try.

6. Control – Take control, tell him everything to do step by step.

7. Surprise – Pop in the shower when he’s in there

8. Impulse – Don’t wait until you get into the bedroom to start to have foreplay

9.  Dress – When you put on your lingerie, don’t forget heels

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October 24, 2012

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  1. Cindy C

    October 24th, 2012 at 10:53 am

    make a date if you have to

  2. Laurie Matheny

    October 24th, 2012 at 11:25 am

    Variety!!! And never let yourself go (SHAVE!!).

  3. lisa

    October 24th, 2012 at 9:10 pm

    date night! even if it is just making fondue at home and having some wine : )

  4. Brittany B

    October 28th, 2012 at 7:53 pm

    Turn the TV off and just hang out. The TV is way to distracting. Always need to make time for each other.

  5. Steph

    October 29th, 2012 at 4:27 pm

    Keep things interesting and fun.

  6. Tim h

    October 29th, 2012 at 4:52 pm

    Drop the kids off at the grandparents house. You can louder that way. Lol

  7. Suzanne M

    October 29th, 2012 at 5:25 pm

    Surprise him with something he has been talking about.

  8. Dawn Reid

    October 29th, 2012 at 5:43 pm

    Surprise him with a Just for him night

  9. Paula Tavernie

    October 29th, 2012 at 6:36 pm

    Try what he wants!!

  10. Shannon Baas

    October 29th, 2012 at 7:20 pm

    Send kids to a sitter for the nigt.

  11. Jennifer

    October 29th, 2012 at 9:59 pm

    Just start making out for no reason at all! Or take a steamy bubble bath together! 😉

  12. Tina J

    October 30th, 2012 at 12:50 am

    Tease and flirt all day as foreplay!

  13. Samantha Meyer

    October 30th, 2012 at 6:55 am

    We try to make things interesting by using these weird game cards, they have a different position om each card. If it’s too hard, we pick another.

  14. deana c

    October 30th, 2012 at 8:31 am

    Variety would be my best tip.

  15. jules m.

    October 30th, 2012 at 11:04 am

    spontaneity.. keep em guessin 😉

  16. Kathleen

    October 30th, 2012 at 12:42 pm

    variety…change up the positions and places…

    kport207 at gmail dot com

  17. Tara Woods

    October 30th, 2012 at 5:13 pm

    be willing to try new things

  18. Vikki Billings

    October 30th, 2012 at 5:36 pm

    Start with a back massage with special massage oils

  19. Miz Vickik

    October 30th, 2012 at 11:13 pm

    Do thoughtful little things for each other

  20. Leslie L. Stanziani

    October 30th, 2012 at 11:40 pm

    Try new things.Do not be afraid to experiment.

  21. Trisha McKee

    October 30th, 2012 at 11:54 pm

    Definitely try new things and yet, don’t do anything that crosses your line.

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